Men why do you think that Women are afraid of You ?

Don’t you realize that most women have a place deep inside of them that is filled with the pain and anger of generations of abuse. that spot is easy to find. all you gotta do is push that button, and you know where to find it.

Below This is a piece I clipped from my Tumblr dashboard discussions tonight, on the physical violence between boys and girls.

There is a Chatline and a Hotline set up for Teens who need help dealing with these issues. they need to sort them out quickly so that this does not become a negative pattern.

I found it disheartening that the original writer would consider physical violence acceptable for any reason.  never ever.  Sapphrikah responded to them initially and then I added the disertation.

Please take a moment and read this very real and pointed response to the physical violence problem; going on today between Men and Women.

PUSSIES & ANKHS: “if a guy punches you, he likes you”

sapphrikah:

atapestryofdisasters:

sigh…

really? they did not just go there.

Ah yes, let’s tackle this today.

That movie pointed out something in the very beginning—that straight womyn are socialized to believe that men being cold or even abusive is a sign that they like you.

It may sound a little ludicrous but think about it, when we were younger, all we knew was that if a boy picked on you, he had a crush on you. Likewise straight boys are socialized to think that’s the way to note your liking.

It would seem less plausible that this notion stuck with us if it hadn’t been for the fact that I have more than one friend who has had boyfriends who treated them like queens, which they got tired of and feel head over heels for the most abusive boyfriends. It still blows my mind.

People Never is there a reason to transform negative treatment into any type of positive emotional response.

Yes get yourself a cool drink cause Dr. RE is bout to Go the Fuck Off

Take a moment and watch this short psa

Most Women who suffer from the “Bad Boy” syndrome eventually realize it after one too many licks.  I can speak to this because just this past week I had to re-live an emotional pain from 28 years ago that was all about this BadBoy BS.

I immediately emotionally confronted the feeling and asked my-self in a loud clear voice if I really liked the feeling of pain and disappointment; or did I find myself really needing to be treated like I was less ?

I answered HELL to the NO to both.

the reality is that many Women are needy; and often they’re just Hurt Little Girls in Big Girls Panties; still looking for someone to apologize for the pain they’ve endured by accepting this negative response from men, for their whole lives.

Women Start Being a Little More Selfish and A Little More Self Loving. Because if anyone Loves You they’ll Treat You Like it.  a man who doesn’t make you smile is not a man who loves you. a man who makes you laugh is a man who enjoys you and wants to be enjoyed by you.

Let Trash Lay beside the gutter where eventually it will decompose into the dirt it absolutely is.  if you want to be loved – ignore anyone who doesn’t love them-self immediately. move right along until you see the face of kindness, and honestly you’ll know it instantly. your heart will smile to confirm your hopes.

As a side note I’d like to add that many women accept physical mistreatment because they have previously been a victim of it in their lives. they need to learn that it is not alright,  ever.

Personally Speaking, Men Know Instantly when looking at me that if they swell up at me or think about hitting me – I Will Not Only HIT Them Back; I Will Probably break my thigh OFF UP IN their asses; Then ask for their medical insurance card; bill them for the surgery and reschedule another treatment in two weeks. Just to be sure they got the correct prescription.  Yeah I’m a Doctor and I Deliver Treatment on the spot.  done it and will do it again if necessary.

I am not afraid of physical violence and men know it when they look in my eyes. They see the wild excitement of me rushing toward them.  yes I rush toward them and give them much more than they could ever wish for.. yes ladies.

Men freak when a big ass pretty woman starts rushing them like a wild bull waiting to fuck them down..

oh yeah fuck them dowwwwnnnnn girls; cause the first thing You say is Where’s All That Dick BITCH ? Gimme Them Big Ass Balls MOFO..

I know that men think women are intimidated by their testosterone. but ladies, remember MEN SLID OUT OF YOUR ASS NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND .

And Yes Ladies They Know it too. just remind one the next time they seem like they’re feelin a lil Hungry Jackish. Let them SEE That HOLE They Slid out of; and watch their expression immediately change. they will realize without a doubt that They have hit that “This Bitch Is Crazy as aMUTHAFUCKA Switch” and the sw/bitch broke. so now yo ass is on and waiting for the fuckery.yeah the real bonafide big dick delivery.

most times their dicks will shrivel like a fuckin frito when they realize you got grits cookin. oh yes girls. grits.

Yes I’m very self confident and it shows in Everyway, Everyday.

This is RZA’s tune Domestic Violence – it’s perfect for this discussion

Remember Womyn  – Men, and Womyn Love a Self Confident Lover. That shit is sexy.  So to sum up -  A Man Better Be Comin to Beat Up This Pussy with His Tongue before he does anything else, or else he’s gonna wish he had.

Love Is Respect – Got it ?

Tags: Domestic Violence